I Was Once Told I’d Never Be a CIO. Here’s How I Proved Them Wrong

by | Growth Mindset, Leadership, Positive Thinking, Technoloy

I Was Once Told I’d Never Be a CIO. Here’s How I Proved Them Wrong

by | Growth Mindset, Leadership, Positive Thinking, Technoloy

I remember the moment clearly.
Sitting in a boardroom filled with seasoned executives, a well-meaning senior leader looked me in the eye and said,
“You’re talented, but you’ll never be a CIO.”
At that moment, I had two choices:

  1. Accept their words as truth.
  2. Prove them wrong.

I chose the latter.

Breaking Through the Barriers

When I started my career in technology, I quickly realized that the path to leadership wasn’t paved for everyone. The traditional model favored a specific mold that didn’t always include people who looked, thought, or led like me.

I was told:
🚫 I needed to be more technical.

🚫 I should “stay in my lane.”

🚫 I wasn’t “executive material.”

But here’s what I learned: Leadership isn’t about fitting into a mold but breaking it.

I Focused on Strategy, Not Just Technology

Early in my career, I realized that the best CIOs aren’t just technical—they’re also business leaders.

Instead of obsessing over the latest tools and systems, I:

✅ Learned how technology drives revenue and growth.

Built relationships across departments, from finance to marketing.

✅ Became the bridge between tech and business strategy.

Because a CIO isn’t just a tech expert—they’re a business enabler.

I Refused to Let Others Define My Potential

The moment someone tells you what you can’t do is the moment you decide whether to prove them right or wrong.

I committed to:

✔️ Speaking up, even when I was the only one in the room who saw things differently.

✔️ Taking on leadership roles before I had the title.

✔️ Asking “Why not me? instead of accepting “You can’t.”

I realized that self-belief fuels success just as much as skillset.

I Built a Leadership Brand

To be seen as a CIO, I had to act like one—before I had the title.

  • I positioned myself as a strategic thinker.
  • I mentored others, proving that outstanding leadership isn’t about power but impact.
  • I wrote, spoke, and engaged with industry leaders, ensuring my voice was heard.

When the opportunity finally came, I wasn’t waiting for permission—I was ready.

The Lesson: Never Let Someone Else Set Your Limits

Years later, I recalled that boardroom conversation after stepping into my first CIO role.

If I had listened to them, I wouldn’t be here.

If you’ve ever been told you’re not ready, not the right fit, not enough—let me tell you this:

Someone else’s doubts don’t define your career. It’s defined by what you choose to do next.

Article written by Christine Moffett

Christine stands out as a distinguished executive and technology innovator, dedicated to fostering unity among global tech leaders. Her mission is to inspire a culture of gratitude and balance, encouraging individuals to lead lives that harmoniously blend professional achievements with personal fulfillment.

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